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      10 Favourite Episodes of Community

      Discussing the Awful Ending of Dexter

      Rating TV Show Endings

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      Cuties and the Sexualization of Children

      Maleficent vs Sleeping Beauty

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      What A Real Women’s Movement Could Be

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      It’s Perfectly Okay Not to Be a Feminist

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      Daenerys and Walter White: Same Characters, Different Shows

      Why Game of Thrones Ended Perfectly

      The Genius of Game of Thrones Characterization

      Jon Snow: The Prince Who Was Promised

      Sansa Stark: Girl Becomes Woman

      Why People Love Game of Thrones

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      How To Be Less Self-Absorbed

      A Culture of Self-Deprecation

      A Lesson in Empathy

      The Freedom of Adulthood

      Good vs Toxic People

      Us vs Them

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      What’s My Political Compass?

      Why you SHOULD NOT vote Tory in the UK election

      Weed Should Be legal

      Abortion doesn’t care about your feelings

      Conservative Snowflakes

      Is Conservatism the New Counter-Culture?

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      On Being Sensitive

      Understanding Mental Illness

      How to Spot a Psychopath

      In Which My Situation Feels Ridiculous

      Alcoholics Anonymous vs Smart Recovery

      Are Personality Disorders Real?

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      Interview with Petrina Binney

      So, here we are.

      THIRD NOVEL COMING SOON! (5th published work)

      Plot vs Character-Driven Stories

      Review of Anne by Robert Fanshawe

      Changing the Way I Blog

  • Young People

      Advice to would-be artists

      University wasn’t for me.

      Generation Y Me

      Facebook’s False Friendship

      Same-Sex Schools?

      Can young people be in love?

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How To Be Less Self-Absorbed

By zarinamacha November 10, 2020November 10, 2020
2020 / Humanity

Self-care is very important. I believe that it is crucial to take care of one’s emotional needs. However, there is a difference between caring for oneself and being self-absorbed. Looking out for others and not seeing yourself as the centre of attention adds to our level of self-care. This is […]

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A Culture of Self-Deprecation

By zarinamacha October 5, 2019October 27, 2020
2019 / Humanity

Ask a pretty woman if she’s attractive and she’ll instantly say she isn’t. Or, she’ll downplay it, or say you’re prettier than her. No one likes a show-off, but a simple acknowledgement of one’s looks, talents, and intelligence is not a bad thing. Self-deprecation is not always the way. The […]

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A Lesson in Empathy

By zarinamacha August 10, 2019October 27, 2020
2019 / Humanity

I was sitting with one of my relatives and casually used a swear word as an adverb. I immediately apologized as I was aware the relative disliked cursing, and then we had a brief talk about language and empathy. Context In my view, words are based on context. Saying ‘nigger‘ […]

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The Freedom of Adulthood

By zarinamacha June 27, 2019October 30, 2020
2019 / Humanity / Personal

Adulthood gets a poor rep. Who wants to do their tax returns, pay bills, go grocery shopping and stay on top of dentist appointments? When we’re in our twenties we’re meant to be figuring ourselves out; hopping between jobs, falling in-and-out of love, paying off student loans and moaning about […]

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Good vs Toxic People

By zarinamacha April 4, 2019October 30, 2020
2019 / Humanity

It can be hard sometimes to distinguish between a genuinely good person and a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Toxic people use a mask of feigned kindness or warmth in order to manipulate others. Or, they are attention-seeking drama queens who think the world revolves around their needs. All of us […]

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Us vs Them

By zarinamacha March 23, 2019December 2, 2020
2019 / Humanity

It’s very easy in a world full of millions to feel at odds with one another. To stand still and say ‘I’m so different, no one understands my struggle’ or ‘I’m much better than everyone else, I’m special.’ In my novellas Every Last Thought and Psycho Girl which comprise my […]

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Zarina Macha

Zarina started this blog in 2017 to document her general opinions and thoughts on life. Originally on Blogger, she moved it to Wordpress in 2020, and hasn't posted any content since 2021. She is currently updating the blog and plans to resume posting content by the end of 2023.
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